2010-01-16, 12:07 PM
In the past, from High School, to College, and then to University, I've had people saying about how I'm surprisingly mature during serious discussions, debates, etc. So I ask people what they mean when they say that. Everybody who's criticized me about how I behave has said the same thing:
"Even the simplest of things can amuse you, you're like a child at heart."
Is that supposed to be a good thing? I mean, I realize I'm pretty giddy at times (irl+online), and I can be mature if the situation is dire or demands it. But apparently, as my close friends perceives me, they think of me as a child inside a young-adult body because I'm still fascinated by the simplest of things. Or I can get excited over a small minor thing. So apparently, I either have:
a) Dual-personalities
or
b) A child-complex
Because I can act like a kid a lot of the times. I get along with pretty much everyone in my social-group (close knit-tight buncha friends), and I have no problems interacting with random strangers I have met through classes, work, etc. In fact, the typical person sees me as friendly or overly nice during 1st encounter. But I think my child-like personality can sometimes hold me back because at times, I wish I was more calm. My girlfriend the other week or so told me I'm like a child, but she thinks it's adorable.
Are any of you guys childlike in personality even if you're like.. 20+? Because I still do the typical kid stuff:
-Wake up on Saturday mornings, hoping to see KIDS WB on, but nothing good is ever on TV anymore. Ever.
-Play video games way too much, but not to the point in which it's an obsessive-illness or disorder (Yes, gaming-addiction is sorta considered as an illness [debatable], but psychologists/sociologists and other researchers are planning on considering it AS an illness in the nearby future)
-Thinks like a child and laughs at pretty much everything
"Even the simplest of things can amuse you, you're like a child at heart."
Is that supposed to be a good thing? I mean, I realize I'm pretty giddy at times (irl+online), and I can be mature if the situation is dire or demands it. But apparently, as my close friends perceives me, they think of me as a child inside a young-adult body because I'm still fascinated by the simplest of things. Or I can get excited over a small minor thing. So apparently, I either have:
a) Dual-personalities
or
b) A child-complex
Because I can act like a kid a lot of the times. I get along with pretty much everyone in my social-group (close knit-tight buncha friends), and I have no problems interacting with random strangers I have met through classes, work, etc. In fact, the typical person sees me as friendly or overly nice during 1st encounter. But I think my child-like personality can sometimes hold me back because at times, I wish I was more calm. My girlfriend the other week or so told me I'm like a child, but she thinks it's adorable.
Are any of you guys childlike in personality even if you're like.. 20+? Because I still do the typical kid stuff:
-Wake up on Saturday mornings, hoping to see KIDS WB on, but nothing good is ever on TV anymore. Ever.
-Play video games way too much, but not to the point in which it's an obsessive-illness or disorder (Yes, gaming-addiction is sorta considered as an illness [debatable], but psychologists/sociologists and other researchers are planning on considering it AS an illness in the nearby future)
-Thinks like a child and laughs at pretty much everything


). Oh, and I nearly forgot... a lot of the time I'm in my room I'm cuddling my stuffed toys *has one balanced on the top of her head right now*