2011-04-02, 04:04 AM
Beloved Wrote:I'm not sure we should really assume that hes not comfortable by it.
It's because he seems really uncomfortable with it.
Yeah he probably does/will wonder, so what. Everyone wonders about what ifs.
And their is not a social implication here or some negative to him getting attention. That's not a problem. It's being forced into it. It's not healthy and if he doesnt like it it's hardly going to encourage his gifts.

