Fate

eg:
Your wedding/open heart surgeory/funeral (Major or minor event?)
Clipping your fingernails (Major or minor event?)
Doesn't seem too difficult to tell the difference.

Actually, it can be rather hard to tell the difference. Not in those specific examples, but let's say you choose to fly on the 3:00 flight instead of the 1:45. Is that a major event to you? (And on that note, a funeral doesn't really strike me as a major event in the sense of fate. It's only important to the people that miss the deceased.)

Just my opinion. Nothing but personal opinions. I don't feel like having to defend my opinions anymore to someone that's gonna "attack" them by overanalyzing it for their own psychological satisfaction.

Well, I didn't mean to offend, so sorry about that. You shouldn't express your opinions in a forum and not expect them to be countered though. And... psychological satisfaction? I guess that is what I was looking for. I wanted you to elaborate more on your beliefs. If that's wrong of me, then again, sorry. I never mean to offend, but... I tend to never shut up either. Dx