Let me explain to you kiddies why the "assholes" always get the hot chicks.

in high school and college relationships are different. Girls see themselves as thru other peoples eyes. Thats why they care so much about their appearance, what purse they have shoes to put on what accessories would be appropriate for the evening, etc. Boys are just like accessories, do they want a nice guy as a bf in High school? Depends really on the girl. If shes in to assholes you really think that 'hot chick' would be a good gf in the first place? take it from me, the anonymous dude from connecticut whose had the same first gf since hs for 4.5 years... ( yeh yeh ). Its not about looks, its about how she treats you. Dont EVER let her make you do pumpernickel you dont want to do unless theres good reason for it. If she thinks she has control over the relationship she may walk all over you. But in my case, i got lucky.