2010-08-25, 12:25 PM
Getting past genetics there is also the social confusion regarding sex and sexuality I've previously broached where people don't quite get the difference between enjoying sexual activity and experiencing sexual attraction.
Just because you fool around with guy friend and experiment and it felt good didn't make you gay. What you did was biologically designed to make you feel good no matter who or what it was with. There's a whole subclass of people who get hung up thinking that because the sex felt nice that must be what they're attracted to, whether it's homo or hetero and it can take years, or even decades for them to realize that even though what they did was fun it doesn't necessarily define who they are or what they're interested in. That too is based on cultural misconceptions where if you have sex with the same gender and like it you must be gay. It's a tragic waste for people to be hung up on being what they believe is expected of them to be and living their life according to what they think is "right" based on what other people have defined for them rather than what they actually feel. This also applies to people who feel compelled to live up to ethnic, cultural, religious or sexuality based stereotypes.
Just because you fool around with guy friend and experiment and it felt good didn't make you gay. What you did was biologically designed to make you feel good no matter who or what it was with. There's a whole subclass of people who get hung up thinking that because the sex felt nice that must be what they're attracted to, whether it's homo or hetero and it can take years, or even decades for them to realize that even though what they did was fun it doesn't necessarily define who they are or what they're interested in. That too is based on cultural misconceptions where if you have sex with the same gender and like it you must be gay. It's a tragic waste for people to be hung up on being what they believe is expected of them to be and living their life according to what they think is "right" based on what other people have defined for them rather than what they actually feel. This also applies to people who feel compelled to live up to ethnic, cultural, religious or sexuality based stereotypes.

