2010-08-15, 10:38 PM
larmie Wrote:If you've had sex with someone whose sex you're not attracted to normally, you're a bisexual. That's how I define it :/
A bisexual is equally attracted to both genders.
What you've described is just incidental or circumstantial sexuality.
Sexual orientation is specific interest in the gender in question, not based on who you actually do it with.
You can have all the hetero sex in the world but it doesn't actually make you hetero if you're lusting after guys the whole time and just going through the motions.
Likewise being curious and fooling around with the same gender once to see what it's like, or fooling around with the same gender because opportunity presents itself and you want to get off, but aren't actually attracted to the gender, doesn't make you gay.
People today are far too hung up on labels they don't fully understand and trying to cram people into boxes. People have a hard enough time understanding themselves without trying to live up to other peoples' mistaken expectations on what they should be based on their own limited understanding of how things work.