2010-04-12, 12:23 AM
Rob Wrote: [color="#000080"]
I recall reading a passage from a book called Norwegian Wood, in which the protagonist said: ''I don't think anyone could be pleased getting up at 10 in the morning to find out you don't like who's laying beside you and hardly even knowing her name''.
Pretty much sums up what I think about your situation. I'm not a virgin, and I haven't slept with people other than my girlfriends. [/color]
I'm actually not that picky. There are tons of girls I really like. But the thing is that they tend to be tomboys and their close relationship to me is the result of them being familiar with all guys in general. For example I'm hanging out with this girl every Wednesday for a couple of hours after class. But the only reason why she's close and familiar with me is because that's how she is with all her guy-friends. I don't want to be that guy whose like, "Yeah I really like you." And the whole relationship turns awkward because I never had a chance to begin with in the first place.