Would you think they are Pedophiles?

There's the problem. You don't expect girls to ever be pedophiles. Boys, you jump to the conclusion that they are. You wait though for the women before judging. Sadly, I do so too; I blame stereotyping/generalization.

The thing is that teenager boys dont usually feel like playing with a 4 year old girl, While the girls find the boy cute and they like to play with them