how can you get into social circles?

Hmm, you can ask several of your buddy's if im nice, im sure chris and dan would vouch for me. But it might be odd having parts of a buddy list that dont like other parts. And about bashing the guild, i've had several people bash it on BL. Heck, half my buddylist is filled with former members who hate "what its become".

I know what you're saying. I had people delete me off BL because they hated the guild I'm currently in. Imo, those people aren't your true friends and you're better off without them. Friendship shouldn't be based on what guild you may be in.