2010-01-10, 09:15 PM
hyperhopper Wrote:im not good with ppl, that might be why im 15, and i got my first friend IRL ever a week or two ago.
why do you say its my fault.
its a long story, and ill tell it if anybody is interested.
whats a good way to get into a guild, I just found ppl from my previous circle to get me into their guilds, which were just for the names, how can i find active ones? run around hene goin J>GUILD@@@@@?
... i was just saying that you, as you said, arent great with people. I was inferring that from your hyperness and thinking there is a strategy or some great mystery in making friends. I'm more or less a shut in, and i know to make friends you just interact with other people, in game that varies from PQ's to training parties to always taking boats on channel 1 and talking to people who are there. Some will want/agree to buddy you, some wont. I know i personally dont like buddying random people, but i do it on occaison, and it works out well.
And running around hene going "J> Guild@@" or w/e might get you into a mildly active guild, but its more likely to get you into random hene-ho guild, which means no one in it will level, and from what you've said, i think you are trying to find a guild that might be able to do stuff other then talk... like go to bosses and have training parties and stuff. Honestly I'd recommend just go PQing, and maybe try to meet people that way, or just grind until higher levels and try to get into guilds/BLs that way. The high level social circles all know each other because they were training together, more or less.