how can you get into social circles?

I just want to say this is an awful idea. Don't ever stalk your friends friends or you will lose friends because this is creepy and forceful and no one wants that kind of person around them.

Also, websites like southperry are the best for making buddies in game. Most of my buddy list is southperrians and we all support each other greatly. If you want to keep friends you have to be willing to give a lot of yourself to them. New friendships may bloom from there but never ever ever ever force yourself into anyone's life.

I have 2 southperrians from khaini on BL... i just see you all talking to each other...

But yeah... TS you are pretty much asking how to make friends. Thats what a social circle is. Its a group of friends... I can tell you might have been the reason your last one collapsed. You can either be a hene-ho and make friends like that, or just train in parties. Go up to random people and ask to get in a party, maybe have a conversation. Jesus, you really cant have a "method" of making friends... you kind of have to go meet people, and if you become friends thats what happens.

Though... joining a bigger and more talkatvie guild or alliance goes a long way towards connections.