2010-01-08, 06:30 PM
(This post was last modified: 2010-01-08, 06:37 PM by LDIntensity.)
Zephyr Wrote:Yet i never tell them anything that happens to me... is this bad? not being able to open to the people close to me? its not that i don't trust them, its just that i just can't tell them about my life and what happens to me...
Its not bad unless you think it is. The only thing that matters is that you feel ok with yourself.
As for not beign able to open to people close to you, maybe its not even your fault, most people just fail to get their own answers to their trival problems so they must talk and talk and talk it out until theyre tired. If your close friends are girls, you couldnt expect something different, most of them really like to talk. But thats not a 'girl-only' problem, guys do that often aswell. I mean, everyone has problems.
If you dont enjoy listening to your friends there are nice ways to avoid certain topics but everyones diffrerent so I cant tell you wath to say or not, you must find out on your own.
Also, theres always someone that would love to listen to what you have to say. You just have to wait until you meet someone like that. You could even try talking about yourself with the close friends you have already.
Dont forget friends and girlfriends or boyfriends are very different, eventhough youre supposed to trust them both. I mean you can talk with your friends about anything you want, what you like about girls, what you dont like about your girlfriend. <That you cant do with your girlfriend, unless you already know each other for a while and trust each other enough.