I like the Scania community, kind of

Well that's completely untrue. In fact, excluding... certain guilds and people who can't speak english well, people communicate well and are open to comprimise. When I see somebody at Kimera, I gladly split the channels. During 2x, people split the map. People are open to conversation and are generally friendly. It's just the "important" Scanians that are jerks.

Well, on my server this is the reputation we've heard. I went to Yollande during its creation to make my bishop, the place was filled with Scanians, and I nearly went insane because of all the back-stabbing and manipulation, and I xferred back to Khaini.

I know not ALL people on such a huge server are bad people, but generally, the more crowded a place is, the worse its friendliness -- rural vs. urban in real life shows this very well.