2009-06-21, 12:03 AM
Hm. I'm not gonna lie: the majority of my week is spent away from my fiance, but when we are able to spend time together, I'd say sex is fairly high on the "to do" list (horrible pun intended.) If I spend a weekend with my fiance and we don't have sex once, I'd wonder: a) is he cheating on me, or b) what did I do to make him upset. Unless of course, we're in a situation where having sex is not an option (spending the weekend at his auntie's small place, for example.)
I love him to bits, but seriously, we aren't "making love" every time we have sex. If he's had a rough day, I'll have sex with him to help take his mind off stuff. Same if I've had a bad day. And really, sometimes I just want him to pull my hair, bite my neck, and get me off. Yes, it's nice and special when it's hot and heavy and passionate and "oh God, I love you," but realistically it's not going to be like that every time.
Too much sex = when you've had so much sex your no-no zone starts hurting (and not in a good way) or when he's too spent to keep it up. And obviously, when it starts getting in the way of work, school, family, friends, etc. Otherwise, pineapple like rabbits if you have that kind of stamina.
I love him to bits, but seriously, we aren't "making love" every time we have sex. If he's had a rough day, I'll have sex with him to help take his mind off stuff. Same if I've had a bad day. And really, sometimes I just want him to pull my hair, bite my neck, and get me off. Yes, it's nice and special when it's hot and heavy and passionate and "oh God, I love you," but realistically it's not going to be like that every time.
Too much sex = when you've had so much sex your no-no zone starts hurting (and not in a good way) or when he's too spent to keep it up. And obviously, when it starts getting in the way of work, school, family, friends, etc. Otherwise, pineapple like rabbits if you have that kind of stamina.