2013-12-17, 08:12 PM
Grey Wrote:I tanked my final, probably, and I ended up chickening out again, so for some reason I thought it'd be a good idea to message him on Facebook, because it's not creepy at all that I know his name even though we've never ever talked, so I'm gonna turn off my laptop forever and hide under the covers. Goodbye forever, Southperry.I know the feels man, I do the same kind of stuff, I've been a total wreck socially since high school and I thoroughly burned bridges with everyone I knew back then, with the exception of one friend I hang out with when possible, it's really tough and a lot of people don't understand how hard it is. being independent for a year helped me a little bit, but it is easy to fall into familiar routines.
Or I could just never go on Facebook again.
You seem very smart and studious, so I really doubt you tanked your final.
Don't worry about the message, if things don't go as you planned, you might not be missing out on much. If you never spoke to him and his reaction isn't very good, you can just imagine he's a massive pimento, and that should help you move on from that
There is nothing wrong with going that extra step to talk to someone for the first time, just don't be disheartened if it doesn't work.