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I don't know what to do. - KhainiWest - 2010-09-14
I'm not angry, well I would kind of say I am. I'm frustrated. I'm not in a blind rage but what would you do? I probably already know the answer, I just don't want to accept it.
There's a girl and shes making me go nuts. Back in March I wanted to date her, I guess you can say I kind of still do. But it's way too complicated now and..too many words exchanged. I chased her for a lil bit, and lost to some other guy. This wouldn't normally bother me, except, the girl no matter what, to me at least is a close friend of mine. Though the feeling is probably not mutual, I can't bring myself to burn my bridge with her I've tried many times but I don't know, to me the friendship isn't worth throwing away but one thing still haunts me. The guy is an utter pimento. Straight up, pimento. He's inferior to me in every way. You can say it's ego but it's common sense, the difference is, he can lie better than I can tell the truth. His stories lack any realistic content, just puffed up promises that are absolutely over the top. Over exaggerates every feeling he has, an overall sleezy sweet talker.
For months he ignored her, for another girl I might add. At first it was just because the girl and him were close friends and enjoyed hobbies together, but as my friends perspective grew more naive, well it wasn't long before it crossed the line to cheating. My friend then dumped him quickly shaking out of this fantasy. Now this jerk off then dates this other girl for another few weeks before dumping her to go back after my friend. Now heres the messed up part. The entire time this guy is playing both girl's hes litterally copy and pasting his responses though texts/messengers. Probably closely reiterated each line like an actor. Both my friend and this other girl unaware of this sleeze bag was taken made contact and compared. they were word to word copied. I mean it was obvious this guy didn't mean a word of it. The other girl that isn't my friend actually gave up school to visit this kid, dumb, immature, I know but, as I said, he knows how to co-hearse or manipulate rather.
Even through all this my friend still claims she loves him. I just can't understand this concept, how can you love something that's an obvious lie. She saw the chats, she saw they were identical, he cheated, he fully admits to it, I don't know what else to do to keep this two apart. I know it's not responsibility, not my duty, but as I said I really do care about this girl. She can date other guys, I don't care, I've given up any type of idea of us being together..but someone like this..ugh she deserves better.
I know you'll all tell me to leave it be, nothing I can do, shes a grown up and can find out herself but, I genuinely don't want her hurt again.
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I don't know what to do. - larmie - 2010-09-14
She loves a pimento the same way you love a girl who picks pimentos over you. /endstory
I don't know what to do. - KhainiWest - 2010-09-14
larmie Wrote:She loves a pimento the same way you love a girl who picks pimentos over you. /endstory
I did like her. I love her in a different way. She's goddam too thickheaded to be my type. This is my fear, she recently got into university, shes living with a doorm mate, whatever, shes doing great for herself. The other girl however was swept by the devils tongue so to speak. She actually dropped out of university for him to go visit him, buying the ticket, like legit committed. He dumped her 3 days later to go back to chasing my friend, and I don't want her in the same position.
This isn't about how can I win her over, but rather, stop her before she gets hurt again cus his only purpose is to simply manipulate her.