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How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Printable Version +- Southperry.net (https://www.southperry.net) +-- Forum: Social (https://www.southperry.net/forumdisplay.php?fid=14) +--- Forum: The Speakeasy (https://www.southperry.net/forumdisplay.php?fid=54) +--- Thread: How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? (/showthread.php?tid=24736) |
How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Khoi - 2010-04-17 Yotsuba Wrote:"Hey mind if I sleep with you in a bed with you a bit?" You're comparing two entirely different scenarios. No one that isn't in a relationship would walk up to a guy and say "Want to sleep with me?", if a girl did that, it's evident she's a whore, and the guy would have to be either drunk, outrageously horny, or has no sense of right and wrong. How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Yotsuba - 2010-04-17 Omni Wrote:You're comparing two entirely different scenarios. No one that isn't in a relationship would walk up to a guy and say "Want to sleep with me?", if a girl did that, it's evident she's a whore, and the guy would have to be either drunk, outrageously horny, or has no sense of right and wrong. I thought cuddling was something only people who are in a relationship do. I guess I'm more out of touch with social norms than I thought. By the way, I didn't mean sleep as in sex, I just meant sleeping with each other in the same bed cuddling together. How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Khoi - 2010-04-17 Yotsuba Wrote:I thought cuddling was something only people who are in a relationship do. I guess I'm more out of touch with social norms than I thought. You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so. How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Khoi - 2010-04-17 Omni Wrote:You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so. Cuddling is basically the same as hugging, except it's a prolonged sense of satisfaction and love. I only think kissing mouth-to-mouth or at times, mouth-to-cheek usually means a sign of dating or relationships (serious or not). EDIT: Oops, meant to edit my older post, not quote it. Oh well. Edited version? ^ How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends? - Yotsuba - 2010-04-17 Omni Wrote:You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so. Nah. When I think "sleeping together" I usually don't think anything sexual about it. |