So this guy I'm going to start seeing when i get back to China has buccal herpes. He told me he likes to kiss a lot. I don't have herpes, or at least I've never gotten any of the symptoms. I'm kind of being paranoid but, how do you know when it's safe to kiss and when it's not? I haven't found a clear answer to this so I'm bothering you all with my little dilemma.