Found out my long time crush is dating...
...with a girl.
And I'm like:
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5...k0oo6_1280.gif
No seriously I'm not making this up. I literally just found that out...
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Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
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This could actually be better? :f3:
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Typical straight guy reaction to this obstacle: "I wonder if they'd let me join in"
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Razmos
Typical straight guy reaction to this obstacle: "I wonder if they'd let me join in"
You're kidding yourself if youdon't think girls wish the same thing with you unicorn riders :f3:
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KhainiWest
You're kidding yourself if youdon't think girls wish the same thing with you unicorn riders :f3:
Nah, girls just like to watch, they don't actually believe they can get in on the action :P
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Razmos
Nah, girls just like to watch, they don't actually believe they can get in on the action :P
Oh you'll never know :f3:
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Not sure if I want to be sympathetic or envious.
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Envious? Just because she's my "crush" doesn't mean I've gotten close to her. Graduating this spring and never seeing her again.
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Razmos
Nah, girls just like to watch, they don't actually believe they can get in on the action :P
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Satellite
Envious? Just because she's my "crush" doesn't mean I've gotten close to her. Graduating this spring and never seeing her again.
So you could at least try :f3:
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Satellite
Envious? Just because she's my "crush" doesn't mean I've gotten close to her. Graduating this spring and never seeing her again.
Then go for it. You might get lucky :p
even if you don't then... You're not going to see her again anyway
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Am I missing something here? If she's dating someone why should he be trying to get in the way of that?
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Razmos
Am I missing something here? If she's dating someone why should he be trying to get in the way of that?
Obviously because he wouldn't be looking to break them up, so they have no reason to object! For him? "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," so our fathers have said.
I'm not certain how true this is, but I can't imagine myself seriously considering a girl as a love rival.
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Satellite
Envious? Just because she's my "crush" doesn't mean I've gotten close to her. Graduating this spring and never seeing her again.
I'm envious because I've been trying to get over this girl for the past 3 years without success. Reading about your situation creates this scenario in my mind where she falls in love with another girl and I find that scenario completely hilarious and acceptable. The thought of her sleeping with another girl is so much more tolerable than the alternative.
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Kalovale
Obviously because he wouldn't be looking to break them up, so they have no reason to object! For him? "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," so our fathers have said.
I'm not certain how true this is, but I can't imagine myself seriously considering a girl as a love rival.
I'm envious because I've been trying to get over this girl for the past 3 years without success. Reading about your situation creates this scenario in my mind where she falls in love with another girl and I find that scenario completely hilarious and acceptable. The thought of her sleeping with another girl is so much more tolerable than the alternative.
So her dating this girl isn't a real relationship?
No sorry, that's ridiculous.
It's not a matter of if she is a "worthy love rival" or not, she is dating someone else, full stop, end of discussion.
You display some worrying double standards here if you think that 2 girls can't have a real relationship. And the whole "oh 2 girls, isn't that exciting" mentality speaks more of perverted fantasy than anything else.
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Razmos
So her dating this girl isn't a real relationship?
No sorry, that's ridiculous.
It's not a matter of if she is a "worthy love rival" or not, she is dating someone else, full stop, end of discussion.
You display some worrying double standards here if you think that 2 girls can't have a real relationship. And the whole "oh 2 girls, isn't that exciting" mentality speaks more of perverted fantasy than anything else.
I never said anything about the relationship being insignificant, I said specifically that I find it less of a problem emotionally. Advocating for OP to go after both girls has always been a joke (presumably by everyone mentioning it, but I'm not in their heads), if you can't tell. Even if OP doesn't want to break them up, having him in the picture requires split attention from the girl in the middle, and man or woman, no one is going to stand for that.
Even if some of us had been serious, I expect OP to know better than to take advice from Shenanigans posts.
On the other hand, I'm genuinely envious of his situation for the reason mentioned.
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Kalovale
I never said anything about the relationship being insignificant, I said specifically that I find it less of a problem emotionally. Advocating for OP to go after both girls has always been a joke (presumably by everyone mentioning it, but I'm not in their heads), if you can't tell. Even if OP doesn't want to break them up, having him in the picture requires split attention from the girl in the middle, and man or woman, no one is going to stand for that.
Even if some of us had been serious, I expect OP to know better than to take advice from Shenanigans posts.
On the other hand, I'm genuinely envious of his situation for the reason mentioned.
Fair enough good sir, I seem to be forgetting that is shenanigans.
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Satellite
Envious? Just because she's my "crush" doesn't mean I've gotten close to her. Graduating this spring and never seeing her again.
So have you ever talked to or approached her?
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Well, since I started in my university I have a crush for this girl "A" and 2 years ago (one year later after I was accepted in the university), she told me that a girl "B" was her GF, I knew about the girl since the beginning but not the lovers part, she told me that she gave up on men and that girls felt better to her, at the beginning I was quite shocked and I even laughed about my misery but after a love Square (well more like a triangle with "A" being a proton in the middle and "B", another guy and me being the corners as electrons ...) I got into the friendzone, the other guy was marked as a total jerk and A +B= "AB". My conclusion: Being in the friendzone from a lesbian couple has it's perks, don't consider the other woman less because she is a woman (she is even worse than another man, they know what they want and have easier access to your crush), don't get in the middle of the relationship, it's not worth the effort...
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Does that mean @MariaColette; is just an opportunity to let us join in their bedroom shenanigans?