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Ardinea
2008-09-18, 02:41 PM
I am a senior in high school taking a freshman art class because I didn't have any time from my 9th to 11th grade schedule to put in for an art class. I need the class because I need a half credit of art to graduate. Seeing as how I need the introductory course as a prerequisite to other art classes, and nothing else really was doable (band and chorus net you an art credit but they schedule it at the most awkward times of the day.) So, I decided to take the freshman intro to art course.

The first day of school I expected to be with all freshman, but to my surprise, it wasn't. I see another senior girl there who I'm luckily on good terms with, and a junior girl. The rest of them are freshman girls. It is a small class, I think there's 8 people in there, which is good. The teacher is on her first year here because the art teacher before her had retired.

Now let's get to the ranty part.

Every single assignment, no matter what - even if it requires little effort, the freshmen girls whine and complain about it. "Waaah I don't want to do this" or "Why do I have to do this?" and that's what I hear through the entire time they are working. Last week we did a project where we had to draw something, and the teacher said it would take a week. Two of the girls said they were done in like 15 minutes.

Also, a few weeks ago, we were doing an assignment, and the teacher was kind enough to bake our class these cookies which were similar to a 7-layer bar. I, the senior girl, and the junior girl thought they were delicious, but through the whole class I kept hearing about how disgusting the cookies are - along with the whole "Oh waah I don't want to do this" whining. You don't say things like that, even if it might be true. Keep your mouth shut and be respectful. Their attitudes are so bad that I walked out of the art room after the bell rang for the next period, and the junior girl walks up to me and tells me how bad their attitudes are.

Today just cut it for me. I walked into the art room, and the bell rings. The freshmen girls spent the first 10 minutes drawing on themselves and just being overall loud and obnoxious while the teacher was trying to explain the assignment to us. We had to pick a plant to draw and eventually paint in watercolor. The freshmen girls all picked these white flowers in a vase (which seemed like the easiest plant to draw out of the bunch.) When we got to the drawing part, a couple of the girls kept whining about how they can't draw and they shouldn't have to do this because they aren't able to draw. I spoke up and said that it is an art class, you are graded by how much creativity and effort you put into something. The senior girl replied to them as well by saying that they shouldn't have that attitude, it's an art class and no matter how bad you draw, if you show the effort she will see that. One of the girls reply by saying "What, do you hate us now?" And the senior girl replies saying "I don't hate you but you shouldn't have such an attitude." And with that, class ended.

Surprisingly, the art teacher is so calm about all of this. She doesn't really seem phased by how rude they are to her. It shocks me to see how bad of an attitude some people have.

tl;dr: To the freshmen girls in my art class: Drop your fucking attitude.

Derimed
2008-09-18, 03:01 PM
You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?

Ardinea
2008-09-18, 03:11 PM
You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?
Actually, no, I don't ever recall being this rude.

And you think they will stop? That's laughable. Some of them WILL stop, but sometimes they don't. Some adults and people in my age group act like this as well. Would I be "immature" to rant about them too?

Also I might as come off as to say that all freshmen are bad. I'm sorry, and I don't mean to offend anyone in the rant but I am aware that not all of them are like this.

Anyway, I just wanted to blow off steam, that's all.

aznegglover
2008-09-18, 03:18 PM
Dam, I get urges to punch people like that

Magus
2008-09-18, 03:26 PM
You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?
You sure do make a lot of assumptions about TC.

Kawasari Mimoto
2008-09-18, 04:10 PM
You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?

Who are you to judge her like that though? Every person is different and unique in their own way, lol, whether one chooses to accept that or not, is another story. But for example, let's say there were 100 Freshman girls, I assure some a lot of them will literally act annoying, stubborn, obnoxious, but I assure you it won't be all of them.. <_<

Michelle
2008-09-18, 06:31 PM
Your patience with them at all is admirable. What did they really expect from an art class in high school.. finger painting? Maybe that's something they could wrap their little brains around.


@Quantact - Not everyone acts like an immature, obnoxious brat when growing up. Maybe the majority. How old you are does not necessarily equal a certain level of maturity. I don't think it's quite right of you to accuse someone, in a rant section nonetheless, about acting immature just because they want to let off some steam.

d=(-__- ")=b

GMSInfighter
2008-09-18, 06:34 PM
You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?

Don't assume cause it makes an "ass" out of "u" and .. wait that doesn't work in this situation xD.

Anyways, all the girls at my school are like that >.<

Derimed
2008-09-18, 10:46 PM
Edit: nevermind

Rain
2008-09-18, 11:02 PM
I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
[totally unrelated note] Wow. your teacher is super nice. She bakes cookies?![/totally unrelated not]

Yea it does sound like they are being supremely rude. I have girls like that...well in all my classes. You may not be able to keep them from whining but you could ask if they could do it to themselves and quietly and after class. You should also point out to them the fact your teacher even baked cookies at all, and how nice she is.


You yourself were like that, if not as a freshman in high school then in jr. high and whatnot. Actually, you ranting about this shows to some extent that you yourself are immature. Older people tolerate child-like behavior because children are expected to behave like children. Think about it, when someday you have a kid, how long will it take you to teach that kid to act like an adult? And don't you think that by that time these freshman girls will be fully grown, and will stop acting like idiots?

I do agree that there are a lot of freshman's that do, do this (I would know being a ninth grader) but they usually grow out of it. Not all freshman are obnoxious and rude. They mostly DO grow out of it, and the ones that don't have a harder time in life =/

IcyGreenTea
2008-09-20, 02:15 AM
Wow, if they can't do it, then don't do it, it's that simple, quit that bloody class. Girls in my high school used to do Japanese because the teacher doesn't really care. They are just essentially doing the subject so they could talk throughout the class. It really infuriate me when they are just being obnoxiously loud and me trying to do the work the teacher set us. Some people are just like that, and they fail everything and screws up badly in life. I hate people with bad attitude too, and I don't see anything wrong with what the TC did, because I did the same thing. =___=